I find it very hard to believe that any destination wedding photographer would tell a bride & groom that nobody else in the room is allowed to have a camera much less have it stated in their contract. In this day and age of digital cameras and friends & family traveling across the country to be part of your destination wedding this seems a little ridiculous. Yes, during portraits or special circumstances, of course, this could cause some interference, but throughout the wedding? I've heard stories of Key West photographers chasing down guests and being exceptionally rude. Check your contracts ladies!